Monday, 10 December 2018

2 weeks in the UK

So, we have been in the UK for 2 full weeks now.  I thought I'd post some of my initial impressions.




POSITIVES:
  • I feel incredibly settled and at home, having been here for such a short time, and considering the fact that we currently don't have a home... that comes as a huge surprise!
  • Feeling safe.  It is so amazing not to feel fearful at all - no burglar bars, or burglar alarms, and people walk their dogs all over the place in the dark all the time
  • So far, the Winter weather is not nearly as awful as I had imagined, as long as you dress properly for the weather you can go out and about quite comfortably.  (I'm guessing that might change as we head towards February - I've been warned it can get pretty grim!)
  • There is a lovely Wintery, Christmassy atmosphere, Christmas lights and music everywhere... I'm LOVING that!
  • I am really happy with the area of Buckinghamshire we have settled in - it's absolutely lovely!
  • Being vegetarian is REALLY easy in the UK.  The options are endless and delicious.
  • People are SO friendly, it astounds me daily - from the cashiers at supermarkets to the moms at Issy's school - people have been unfailingly polite and friendly
  • The postal service is awesome
  • There is no litter and it is incredibly clean, even the public loos 
  • The Christmas markets are amazing!
  • Mulled wine!!!  Mulled cider!!!  Heavenly...
  • We have managed to see several friends in the short time we've been here, which has helped us to feel settled.  I love that my Lissy is less than an hour away!
  • We live in the Chilterns, there are Red Kites in our area - as in the bird of prey, not the child's toy - they were on the brink of extinction and have been successfully re-introduced.  I love seeing them every day.  Makes my heart smile.
  • There are loads of woods, National Trust properties and lovely walks on our doorstep
  • Getting to know the local wildlife is such fun
  • Public transport is amazing here
  • London is less than an hour's train ride away
  • Online shopping.
NEGATIVES:
  • I miss my Paula and Impi something fierce!
  • My body-clock was terribly confused by the sun setting at 4pm, getting used to it now, but it is a bit weird!  I keep on wanting to eat supper at 5pm.
  • Things work so well here, but that can be a bit intimidating - I feel like at any moment I might do the wrong thing.  Makes me a bit nervous
  • Spending rands..... eish! It's expensive.  
  • At the moment I am fully embracing the cold, Wintery, darkness - it's cosy and I genuinely love it, but I can imagine that by the end of February it may get a bit old and I'll be yearning for sunshine.
  • It's a pain getting the kiddies all dressed up in their coats, hats, gloves and boots before we go anywhere - and they can't wear their coats in their car seats, so it's a battle we fight repeatedly.... coat on, coat off, coat on again....
  • This place doesn't sell the good meds... my headaches call for Myprodol, my colds call for Corenza C and Linctagon and that weird tooth sometimes needs Cataflam... problems!
  • There is no Woolies chai.... sob, sob, sob....
  • There is no Tommy's sushi.....sob, sob, sob....
  • lime scale.  It's a nuisance
  • Issy has jumped all the way into "big school" - she's now in a uniform, going to school from 9am to 3pm, learning the 3Rs.  Guys! She's only little!
  • I think I sometimes come across as rude.  The people are very, very polite, whereas I think we can sometimes be a bit "bull in a china shop".
  • The central heating does a number on my sinuses.  It can get very dry and stuffy.  You'd know our house, it's the one that regularly has the windows and doors flung open when it gets a bit much for me.
  • I haven't been able to find decent sushi in our immediate area.  (Can you tell the girl is missing her sushi-fix?!